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Got a BFP on my 1st IVF - was really excited - it was a true miracle
Now it all looks lost - at 6 weeks - a sac with a large object that is too big to be an embryo and no heartbeat and another large object outside the uterus. I have to wait until Friday for blood tests to confirm - may have to have a laporoscopy. It's my 30th birthday on Monday and was having a party at the weekend - it's not gonna be the same now. Wish it all could have turned out differently. Just feel so empty - don't know what to do and how to cope |
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IVF Feb 07 BFP m/c@6wk
IVF Aug 07 BFN
FET Feb 08 BFN
FET Jan 09 BFP
9.9.09 Daniel Graham & Chloe Louise were born
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| Littlun |
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 8:44 am |
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Ruth,
Hun what can I say you must be going through hell at the moment. Just rest up hun and get all your strength together for Friday.
IVF is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through but miracles happen and that is the thing that keeps everyone in this world going.
You are in my thoughts and prayers hun and hope things turn around for you soon.
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:51 am |
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Ruth - I know exactly how you are feeling, but don't give up hun. I know you're probably sick of hearing it, but you are still so young and have plenty of time. Try to turn what has happened into a positive rather than a negative. You know you can conceive and I bet you any amount of money you will get there in the end.
A lot of different consultants all said to me, that the single most positive thing for eventually having a baby was if you have been pregnant before. You have now achieved that, even though it appears to have gone wrong. I know you want THIS baby and I understand that feeling too. I had 3 miscarriages and then took another 6 years before finally falling with my little boy. I hadn't even started trying at your age.
Sub fertility or infertility is truly the most awful thing to live through.....but when you get your dream it will be with the right baby at the right time, and all that you have been through will make you stronger.
Hope this helps hun
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| ra |
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 10:04 am |
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| Thanks ladies - your support means a lot at this sad time |
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IVF Feb 07 BFP m/c@6wk
IVF Aug 07 BFN
FET Feb 08 BFN
FET Jan 09 BFP
9.9.09 Daniel Graham & Chloe Louise were born
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:46 pm |
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Ruth,
So sorry, it takes time for us to come ot terms with the awful things that happen to us through IVF, some of it really ahppens to others all the time they are just blissfully unaware of what's happening. At least they will be able to find out what the problem is and then hopefully sort thisng out for another tx. You are still young, though I know that's much of a consolation, you do still have time on your side.
Good luck for the future
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3rd time lucky for us!!!
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Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 4:51 pm |
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it's all over - the miscarriage is confirmed - just have to wait now
to my two lovely embryos - you will be sadly missed - I loved you very much x x x |
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IVF Feb 07 BFP m/c@6wk
IVF Aug 07 BFN
FET Feb 08 BFN
FET Jan 09 BFP
9.9.09 Daniel Graham & Chloe Louise were born
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 6:23 pm |
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Ruth,
So So Sorry, it has brought tears to my eyes reading your post, I never thought I would move past the loss of my little ones but I did- Thats not to say I will ever forget them- but I am now at peace that they are in Gods loving arms.
I wish you strength for the days ahead and luck and best wishes for your future.
Luv
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| lizzie |
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 10:31 pm |
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| hugs are being sent your way Ruth xxxxxxxxxx |
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| Littlun |
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 7:45 am |
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Ruth,
That confirmation hurts believe me that I do know and although at this moment in time you think will I get back to being me again you will.
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