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vip
Joined: 16 May 2007
Posts: 3412
PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 7:07 pm

Congratulations Peachy too, sorry I missed this earlier.

Good luck everybody x

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peachy
Joined: 26 Oct 2010
Posts: 769
PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 7:29 pm

Jo- they should ring you in morning and tell you how your little embies aredoing and discuss options re transfer . Six is a lovely number . Good luck Xx

thanks vipx

yes still feels surreal .

Mamahope- Im on pregnacare but without omega . I take the zita west ones for that. Also taken solar ante natal in past .

Xx

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Surprise natural BFP whilst dr for FET DS Born 7/1/13
johopes
Joined: 23 Jan 2012
Posts: 38
PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 7:44 pm

Hi Peachy

Thank you, unsure they will now as due for ET tomorrow morning, will hopefully have a chat first....

Jo xx
Konley
Joined: 21 May 2011
Posts: 1834
PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 8:54 pm

Stella - One Baby Very Happy - Heartbeat Seen 02/05
Konley - BFP Very Happy - 2nd MiW Scan - 15/05 & 3rd MiW Scan - 21/05
peachy - NATURAL BFP Very Happy - MiW Scan 29/05
Mamahope - BFP Very Happy - MiW Scan - 30/05
CKJ - OTD 18/05 - Lady In Waiting - x2 2dt
MrsHanes - OTD 25/05 - Lady In Waiting - x1 3dt
johopes - OTD 26/05 - Lady In Waiting - x1 2dt
completely - Start Stimms 07/05 - 1st Stimms Scan 14/05 or 15/05
soontobmummy - Start Stimms 11/05, 1st Stimms Scan 16/05, 2nd Stimms
Scan 18/05, EC 25/05
Jazz - Start Stimms 22/05 or 23/05, EC 04/06
caro33 - Appt 17/04 (DE Donate)
katiebyrne - Awaiting Recipient Match (DE Donate)
little.faith - First appt end of May (Fresh)
Meadow - BFP - MC Sad - (((((((BIG HUGS)))))))
flutterby - BFN Sad - Review - 08/05 (((((((HUGS)))))))
Cinnoam - Further Tests Recommended ((((((HUGS))))))
cords - NEXT TIME ((((((HUGS))))))
TJ - (((((((HUGS)))))))
leepooh - (((((((HUGS))))))))
siany - (((((((GOODBYE)))))))


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Konley
Joined: 21 May 2011
Posts: 1834
PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 9:26 pm

Evening Ladies

peachy - Did you get to speak to Simon? What's the plan Stan? I'm still so bl**dy happy for you x

leepooh - When is your review hun? Hopefully your course of action should become a lot clearer after this! You're in limbo at the moment, and it's sh**e, so be gentle to yourself and your DH, until such time that you start to turn a corner, and you will hun, it just happens at different times for all of us x

Jazz - Hi, and half a welcome (purely because I am not sure if you are sticking around) Laughing . Good luck with your treatment abroad x

vip - Thanks hun. I swore I would'nt get hung up on the h/b, and that the scan was purely to rule out a m/c, and lo and behold what do we both start doing, obsessing about measurements and h/b. Hey ho, not long to wait, surprisingly calm, (at this exact second in time, ha Rolling Eyes ). Hope you are well? x

mamahope - I'm taking the Femibion, for the last two cycles I was taking Pregnacare. Hope the pain eases soon. Hope you and vip are right x

johopes - Excellent news on your EC. On my first cycle I had a 2dt, in fact all three have been 2dt's, so I would'nt worry about it. Although I will admit to feeling disappointed first time around, because one thread I was on, virtually all the ladies were having blasts. I can also tell you in all sincerity, I have seen bfp's in equal measures for all transfer dates (bar 4dt, not saying unsuccessful, just rarely see it). Good luck for tomorrow, soon-to-be-LiW x

MrsHanes - Good luck to you too, if ET is tomorrow x

AFM - Ultra tired, gagged when feeding the cats this morning, nausea until mid-morning, boobies sooo painful. Was told by the nurse yesterday, that because my hcg level would be so high by now, that I will still get these symptoms even if the pregnancy is not viable, oh what joy eh?!

Bye for now Kon

ps - I've noticed my swearing has gone up a notch, how unlady like, honestly believe it is a coping mechanism, so hope no offence has been caused??

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PostPosted: Wed May 09, 2012 9:46 pm

Hey Kon Kon- Really hope and pray so so much you get to see a h/b on your next scan. I can so feel your worry and understandably so.. As much PMA we have somethings just can't rest until we have a real answer for it. Best thing we can do is keep the PMA up for you and cross our fingers for you.No offence caused with the swearing I have a punch bag hanging from my pagola (I know how classy) and often use it to take out some tension! I will kick and punch it really hard for you tomorrow! xx

JoHope-WOOHOOO! Got all my fingers and toes crossed for tomorrow for you. You'll be another of our Liw's. So nice to have more of us in this boat! Praying for some lovely embies to snuggle up inside.xx Not to sure about the different days and grades Good luck all the same.xx

CKJ- How you been today so glad you are taking rest from this and giving yourself much needed time to rest and enjoy.xx

Hey to everyone else and wishing you all the best and to MrsHanes if ET is tomorrow.xx

AFM- I'm fine feeling slight tingling and tickley and bloating in my tummy. Very hot at night other than that all good! Nearly finished my bedroom mega chuffed. Very Happy

Night all.xxx

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MrsHanes2be
Joined: 24 Jan 2012
Posts: 105
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 7:58 am

Good morning ladies, just a quick one to wish johopes good luck with ET today.
Hope everyone else is well, doing good o whatever stage you are in. I will pop back later n do personals.

Well i'm preliminarily booked in for ET late morning, however i am getting a phonecall at 9am to inform we as to whether that is happening or going to day 4, depends on the embryos, yesterday we had a 3cell, 2x 4 cells and a 5 cell.

Catch up soon xxx

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me 30, OH 32 ttc 3 years
Endometriosis
Ovarian Cyst
Bicornuate uterus
6 months - 50mg clomid
12/08 m/c
Jared George born 10/12/12 at 09:57 weighing 3lb 5oz
peachy
Joined: 26 Oct 2010
Posts: 769
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 8:01 am

Don't apologise for the swearing Kon. You are allowed given the stress of what you are going through . Im still reading those as good signs . When i miscarried early my symptoms did disappear and i did still have high hcg in my blood . Hold on little one.

Didn't speak to Simon himself just his secretary who i have spoken to a few times before . On clexane , steroids , intralipids tomorrow. No pessaries !!!yay !!

Good luck today Jo!! And mrs hanes too.

Glad the bedroom coming on completely xx

day off today!! Yippee !! And then a weekend away xx

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Surprise natural BFP whilst dr for FET DS Born 7/1/13
rosemummy
Joined: 04 Dec 2009
Posts: 986
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 8:43 am

Sorry just butting in...Peachy I am so very happy for you. Hope all goes well, it surely will. AMAZING!
Love from your stalker
Rosemummy

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CKJ
Joined: 15 Feb 2012
Posts: 490
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 10:38 am

Hi Ladies

Will do personals first…

Suman – Not sure if too early to tell re symptoms – am thinking if its work then the little one(s) should have implanted by now? But am trying to be positive without getting hopes up too high… Smile How are you getting on with Stimming? Is your OH doing the injections for you or are you doing them yourself? I had loads of weird and scary dreams whilst I was DR’ing and Stimming xx I love that you have a punchbag!!! Well done on finishing your room. My tummy was hugely bloated and still is! I kept a sheet with me at night so if duvet got too hot I could fling that off and cover the sheet over me instead. Hubby usually has to fight me for the duvet – at the moment he doesn’t know whether he is going to get some or all of it as my temperature keeps changing lol. xx

Peachy – Does it all seem any more real for you? I’m grinning as I’m typing my message to you – so so chuffed for you hun xx Enjoy your day off and weekend away Very Happy xx

Flutterby – how did your review meeting go hun? xx

STBM#1 – Haha I loved the leg warmer pillow case - hid my hairy legs!!! (though I did get them waxed for EC/ET hahaha Laughing Good luck with stimming hun and great attitude to just go with the flow. Aww bless your OH – he will get to come in with you when they do the real ET (and have to wear some scrubs) and that is so amazing to experience together when the embryo(s) go back in you. xx

Kon Kon – I’m glad to hear that your little one is holding on and am continuing to pray for you, DH and your embie and that you hear the h/b at your next scan xx I’m staying sane – I have found the time has passed quickly (think it helped having OH home with me for 1 week) so can’t believe there is only 8 days to go! Xx No offence caused re swearing – it is a damn effing good outlet Laughing

Leeann – Hope you slept OK last night? I am praying that your year gets better and that things start going your way soon. I think you’ve been through a lot lately and it is a huge emotional rollercoaster so rest and when you’re ready to think about it more you and your OH can decide what you want to do next – you don’t have to decide right now? Do you get a review meeting with CARE? I think reading various posts on here – life is full of surprises and even if it seems all is lost now – keep faith, try and stay positive if poss because you never know what is going to happen sweetie. Sending you lots of hugs xx

Mamahope – I’m taking Pregnacare Conception at the moment. I was advised against Multivitamins as I think Vitamin A is not good for baby. Hope you got your holiday and insurance sorted? xx

Johopes – Brilliant numbers re eggs! Hope your ET went well today? How many did you transfer? I also had a 2dt and the was advised that those have a good chance of succeeding too. They would have chosen your best embie(s) so continue to stay positive Smile Looking forward to you joining me as LiW Smile xx

MrsHanes – hope you are OK? Good luck if ET goes ahead today! Looking forward to you joining me too as LiW with Johopes!! Smile xx

Stella – how are you and your little one keeping? Hope NM is OK and prognosis for his Dad is positive xx

Cinnoam – hey and *waving* - hope you OK and things start moving soon xx

Jazz – hi and welcome – good luck with your treatment abroad! Smile

Hi to Caro, Cords, Treacle and Meadow – sending you all lots of love and hugs xx

Hi also vip and rosemummy, Katiebyrne and little.faith (know you are posting elsewhere but not sure if still dropping in on this thread?) Smile

AFM – well yesterday was first day back at work and I was shattered. Manager told me to leave early and said that if I’m feeling the same today and tomorrow (she doesn’t work Thurs and Fri) I can just go home and work from there if I want. OTD is one week tomorrow (I have booked the day off) and can’t wait – am hoping the next 8 days go as quickly as the last 8 days have! Trying not to overthink any symptoms I may have as they could indicate one way or the other. Have a wedding this Saturday and then Sunday lunch at the local with the in-laws on Sunday. BF came over last night as was asking how I was getting on. Felt bad that I’m not sharing what I am going through with her but I just can’t bring myself to discuss it with her as she has shown by previous comments that she does not understand what I am going through. I am also slightly miffed that I have not heard from my other BF at all regarding IVF – she has apologised in an email for being distant and blamed this on her SiL not being well but not sure what her excuse is now as her SiL gave birth to twins about 3 weeks ago. I am not sure if she is avoiding me because she does not know what to say to me. At the moment I am just trying to concentrate on the more positive things so will deal with all that when I am less hormonal Smile

Hope you all have a great day. Lots of PMA, prayers and love and hugs for you all in various stages Smile xxx

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katiebyrne
Joined: 27 Feb 2012
Posts: 308
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 1:49 pm

Hi all

I've been trying to catch up as best I can but it's really hard! Smile x

Peachy - A huge congrats to you!! A happy and healthy 9 months x

Konley - Fingers and toes crossed for you, keep smiling, I'm sure everything will be fine Smile x

MrsHanes - Lots of luck for today!! x

JoHopes - Good Luck!! x

CKJ - Really excited about your testing day!! x

AFM - Had a bit of a set back with the matching as CARE needed some of my old test results from DRI. All sorted now though so we are officially being matched as of today! Yay!! CARE said it should all be sorted as of next week and depending on the lady I'm donating to's cycle it will be DR as of 23rd May or June Smile xxxx

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johopes
Joined: 23 Jan 2012
Posts: 38
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 4:15 pm

Hi All

STBM-Met the lady who designed the leg warmers and the whole team had a good laugh at the hairy leg comments! Did break the ice! lol

CKJ-You must rest and work is just work and unimportant at the moment at least that's what I'm telling myself! I've had some difficulties with people 'not understanding' which I'm not sure I understand, is it really hard to empathise with grief or longing??? I maybe being passive aggressive but I end up feeling sorry for them for their pre-occupation with themselves and their own feelings. If they struggle with this its likely (in my opinion) they will struggle with all aspects of life and death. Doesn't make them bad people but maybe there fair weather people and better for going for a beer with?! Smile

AFM-ET today embryo that was put back was a grade 2? They said this was good? None for freezing and can't remeber the grades of the others although I think some were a 3 Sad so no frosties for us. They were having an inspection today so felt they made more of a fuss of me then perhaps usual. DH couldn't be with me as he's being made redundant and had a job interview and nearly the same time! Both sad but it did make the experience feel more 'normal' if that's possible.... Now the wait begins, thank you for being here and all your good advice and support.

Hope your all ok?

Jo xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
MrsHanes2be
Joined: 24 Jan 2012
Posts: 105
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 4:27 pm

Hi all

Congrats on ET johopes, now time to take it easy and relax.

AFM- ET was today, we had a tough choice as to whether to put 1 or 2 back, i wanted 2 but other half only wanted the 1, in the end we decided to put one back and see if the other embryo makes it to blast and then freeze from there. It was an agonising decision, which took well over an hour to make, heres too a long 2 weeks of waiting. We did manage to get a picture of our embryo which the embryologist said was of excellent quality.

Thanks to everyone for their support and help through the whole experience, here's hoping good news comes for all of us, have OTD 25/5.

mucho love to all xxxxxx

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me 30, OH 32 ttc 3 years
Endometriosis
Ovarian Cyst
Bicornuate uterus
6 months - 50mg clomid
12/08 m/c
Jared George born 10/12/12 at 09:57 weighing 3lb 5oz
johopes
Joined: 23 Jan 2012
Posts: 38
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 4:41 pm

MrsHanes2b-What an awful dilemma, sounds though what you've got is great quality so I'm sure you've got a great chance! Smile Glad we're waiting together!
MrsHanes2be
Joined: 24 Jan 2012
Posts: 105
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 4:57 pm

johopes - it was horrid, but statistics show that there isn't really a difference in pregnancy rates whether one or two is put back. Yes i'm definately glad we can go through this time together, is your test date also 25/5? x

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me 30, OH 32 ttc 3 years
Endometriosis
Ovarian Cyst
Bicornuate uterus
6 months - 50mg clomid
12/08 m/c
Jared George born 10/12/12 at 09:57 weighing 3lb 5oz
peachy
Joined: 26 Oct 2010
Posts: 769
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 6:16 pm

Woohoo jo and Mrs hanes . 25th my wedding anniversary so let's hope it brings you n
both luck. Sounds like you both had good quality so great news . Completely understand that agonising decision mrs hanes . I was torn what to do this time . But the decision never needed to be made!! Take it easy and look after yourselves and make sure Dh does too:-)

thanks for popping on rosemummy . Was going to email you once it had sunk in.

Starting to feel bit pregnant now. Queasy and light headed .xx
Hang on in there ckj . Please let this be your time.xx
love to all. Xx

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Surprise natural BFP whilst dr for FET DS Born 7/1/13
johopes
Joined: 23 Jan 2012
Posts: 38
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 7:29 pm

Peachy-How exciting!
MrsHanes2b-Strange but mine is the 26th, but may cheat a day if thats what they told you Wink. Are you working or having some time off? Care gave me a sick note today for a week...
Konley
Joined: 21 May 2011
Posts: 1834
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 8:25 pm

Hi Ladies

completely - Thanks sweetie for your kind words. We have a punch bag too, in our cellar (might be using it after Tuesday Evil or Very Mad ). Well done on nearly having your bedroom finished x

MrsHanes - Yay to be a 'Lady in Waiting'. I don't envy the decision you were both faced with today, but the main thing is you are now in with a chance, a very real one at that, so sending you lots of luck for your 2ww hun x

peachy - Lucky you, not having to contend with the pessaries. Have a lovely weekend away, and thanks for the encouraging words. Loathe to say I have'nt felt as rough today, uh-oh! Yipee to your queasiness and light headed feeling (the things we revel in )x

CKJ - Thanks hun. It bleeping is a good outlet, is'nt it? Wink Regarding your BF's, don't feel guilty for not sharing, because honestly, unless a woman has experienced this ivf journey firsthand, no matter how hard they try, the understanding/empathy needed will not be there. Plenty of time to share down the line! You're wise to realise that your other friend can be addressed at a less tentative time. Right, now is the time to really distract yourself, as you will probably find your preoccupation levels rising this week. Keeping my fingers crossed for you x

katie - It's no mean feat trying to catch up on this thread. I can lose the flow after only half a day Laughing . Thanks for the pma boost. Ooooh not long now then, hope your match is found soon x

johopes - Found your comment to CKJ fascinating. Often, due to the positions that DH and I hold in our jobs, we both frequently find ourseves saying "they have no idea". Can be very challenging when some are wittling about such minor drama, often created by themselves, out of sometimes I wonder just sheer boredom (too harsh, ooopsie). Anyway onto the fun stuff, well done on moving onto LiW. I should imagine you have a day later OTD, since yours was a 2dt, and MrsHanes was a 3dt, having said that I should'nt imagine it would make a huge amount of difference. Good luck to you too x

HELLO EVERYONE ELSE Smile

AFM - Nowt much to report to be fair. Working is helping to make the time go quicker. Spotting continues, and symptoms have been milder today, so just hoping that is'nt an ominous sign??!!

Love Kon Kon xxxx

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Posts: 462
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 8:48 pm

Hey Ladies!!

So firstly yaaay to MrsHanes and Jo on sucessful egg transfers and now Ladies in Waiting! Very Happy Very Happy You must be feeling so excited now ! I know I am! Lets hope as Peachy said that her wedding anniversary marks a momentous occasion for you both also.xx

MrsHanes-Well done on making a decision I can imagine that one to be one of the most difficult ones to make in this process but like the Embryologist said the embie is excellent so make sure you take it easy and enjoy some embie snuggling up time. Do you have time off work too? Hope so. xx

Johopes-Congratulations again on becoming LiW. Great you have a sick note especially if your job is quite demanding.Enjoy your time and I'm saying yeah cheat! hehe. xx

KonKon-Almost at the weekend not too long to go hun till your next scan.x
Peachy-Whoop Whoop on the nausea symptoms makes it more official, you didn't tell us what your DH reaction was when you told him? Big love to you also hun.xx

Katie-Fab news you have reported to us minus the little glitch. Yay to officially being able to start sooner rather than later and ample time to give your health a kick start before getting on the rollercoaster. xx

Ckj-Hey hun boo to being shattered but your Boss seems so nice does she know what your going through right now. I would take her up on the offer or get a sick note because don't know how happy your DH would be with you working at all at the minute!x Least you have kept busy and continuing that on to the weekend. Feel like your week has really flown past! I can definitley relate to and understand being miffed at your bf.I think maybe your friend finds it slightly hard like I have to explain things again and again. And as for the other friend I would be miffed too, not to throw it in her face but I am sure you have been there for her in her time of need and your going through one of the most important things of your life. Remember the advice you gave me and dust her off your shoulder and concentrate on you. I went through something similarly with one of my bf's. I told her that I would be going through Ivf and I just never heard from her again she had a new group of friends and stopped bothering me , when I pulled her on not being in touch she actually told me to delete her number!!!I was really upset blah and then just last week I got a random message from her profusely apologising. I told her she doesn't need my forgivness but as for things being the same ..nah. I hope your friendship doesn't come to this which I'm sure it wont but hope she sees her wrongs sooner rather than later. xxx P.s Yes OH and friend have been stabbing me. I still can't bring myself to see it go in!

STBM- Yeeee!! Only one more sleep to go sweety! Bet your so excited now!! I don't think Sheffield has a Trial ET I feel like I'm missing out now with those leg warmers!

Stella-How you getting on lovely. Really miss you on here.xx Praying for you always and also for NM's dad.xx

Flutterby -Really hope your review went well and you have some kind of plan of action.xx

Hey to VIP, Jazz and Rosemummy for popping on sending some lovely wishes.xxx

Hey to everyone else on here too hey Cinnobun hehe kept writing cinnobum! lol

AFM- I've been feeling a little sick is that normal whilst stimming? Also I have a scan on Monday my first stimming one although I may be in London then so may have to change it to Tuesday. Chat to you all soon. xxx

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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 9:05 pm

Kon Kon we just cross posted again! Great to hear your spirit again now time to stick those boxing gloves on and release some of that arrgh.. glad work is keeping you busy and your hanging in there. Much love honey night night.xxxx

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peachy
Joined: 26 Oct 2010
Posts: 769
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 10:36 pm

Kon symptoms do come and go . I read some of my posts from last time last week and said the same . I had lots of spotting too.

Completely yes i felt sick timming . So all good xx

dh was at work and couldn't really talk as had loads of people hanging round his desk . Had to wait most of day to speak to him was a killer . Then sent him to get more tests and he also bought home some flowers . Don't think he can still believe it.

Night all. Xx

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Surprise natural BFP whilst dr for FET DS Born 7/1/13
MrsHanes2be
Joined: 24 Jan 2012
Posts: 105
PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2012 8:40 am

Morning all, how is everyone on this wonderful morning.

Peach, i am still so pleased for you everytime i read it, makes me smile!

Completely - I had horrible side effects to stimming, flu, headaches, dizziness, nausea, vomiting, you name i had it, all i had to keep telling myself was its all worth it. Yes i do have time off, i'm now into my 2nd week f leave, go to the doctor on friday for another 2 week note to take me past OTD, i can't risk anything with my job, patients are so unpredictable. Sheffield do have a trial ET, i was ment to have one but never did, you will finally get to see the leg warmers for collection. As for scrubs partners don't get chance to put them on just the lovely crocs. Rachel the embryolist does although you to take a pic of the embryo before transfer if you have a camera fone

Johopes - like konley said i hink the day difference is only cause i had a 3dt and you had a 2dt so at different stages but i did find some notes that state what should happen during a 3dt and should be able to tell around 11 dpt.

Konley - not long now till your next scan, hopefully there will be a little hb for you this time

CKJ- how have you got this far with out pulling your hair out, 8 days till OTD, i still have 2 weeks and omg how bored am i, i just want to shop to get out of the house

Hi to everyone else, hope everyone is keeping well.

AFM - Well not sure what i'm ment to feeling at the moment although i am very tearful, got a bit of pain in stomach, but i know thats normal, although i am now been monitored for OHSS as my ovaries were huges when transfer went ahead. As other half is away, he's off to catterick and all my dads family live near middlesbrough, so i'm thinking of going up for a few days, passes the time and also means i'm not home alone and tempted to do anything i shouldn't.

Have a good day ladies and catch up later xxx

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me 30, OH 32 ttc 3 years
Endometriosis
Ovarian Cyst
Bicornuate uterus
6 months - 50mg clomid
12/08 m/c
Jared George born 10/12/12 at 09:57 weighing 3lb 5oz
completely new to ivf
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 462
PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2012 1:19 pm

Thanks for confirming Peachy and Mrshanes yes I was feeling very nauseas last night im on two vials of 1liquid/2powders at moment but so glad It is related but poor you Mrshanes you really suffered the lowest low. At least you get some chill time for a good few weeks I say get down to Middlesbrough and keep your self entertained. You'll only start getting an itch to do things at home otherwise! Make the most of this time. Xxx

Hope were all ready for a wonderful weekend. Xx Special happy Friday to all our Ladies and Mama's In Waiting. Xxxx

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CKJ
Joined: 15 Feb 2012
Posts: 490
PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2012 4:47 pm

Hey ladies

Yay MrsHanes and Jo on becoming LiW Very Happy Will pray and hope your embies get very comfy and snuggly and the next 2 weeks go fast for you xx

Katie – it is very hard to stay on top of the posts! Lol. It’s all happening now for you – yippee! Will keep all crossed for you that its smooth sailing from here onwards xx

Johopes – Yup Grade 2 is good and in with a very good chance Smile I understand your sadness at no frosties as that is what happened with us too but stay positive that you have one very good embie on board Smile xx Enjoy your relaxing time and try not to worry about things. Wishing your OH lots and lots of luck and hope the interview went well xx I am resting lots and taking it easy at work. I’ve got some friends who are able to totally emphasise but I think the issue with BF is she is very straightforward (like me) and this for her is just “one of those things” I may not be doing her justice as she has asked questions and haven’t discussed my feelings with her yet about why I'm not forthcoming with answers - but like I said – it’s very hard to cos she has already shown she doesn’t understand (she had 2 boys without even trying for them) but she has been there in the past when needed (and she has lent me a dress for a wedding tomorrow as my tummy is still HUGE - told her it was cos of the meds). It’s a shame as I’ve known my BF’s since we were in college together so don’t want this to be the “thing” that tears us apart. To be honest though – once I had my rant yesterday it’s no longer on my mind as a major concern Smile xx

MrsHanes – bless you and it is a very tough decision and you made the one that was right for you. Yay to embie being excellent quality! I watched a lot of TV, read a few books, went to Cinema, ate out and also took walks around the village. We also had friends over Smile I think I was lucky as OH also took time off so I wasn’t getting bored on my own lol. I have been tearful too and had a sore tum for up to 5 days after transfer. Hope OHSS does not develop. I vote yay to going away and visiting fam as long as it’s not going to put you under any strain physically xx

Peachy – thanks hun and yay to feeling queasy (such a funny thing to say I know but hopefully you know what I mean??) Aww to your OH and the flowers Smile Smile Have a fab weekend away xx

Kon Kon – not long to go and so hoping you get to hear the h/b this time xx PLEASE try not to worry too much xx

Suman – I’m so sorry for what you had to go through with your friend – just not what is needed when you already are starting a rollercoaster of a journey. Haha – are friend and OH glad to be stabbing you?? Woohoo to first scan on Monday/Tuesday! My Boss knows – I am currently in a contract (due to end Sept) and I told her pretty much after I started. She went through IVF herself which is both good and bad. Good because she can understand, but bad because she went through 12 cycles where it was unsuccessful and is projecting how she felt onto me and telling me not to get my hopes up. I pretty much told her that I was staying positive and that if it doesn’t work then I will deal with that at the point I have to and in the meantime I will continue to believe in PMA! I was nice about it and said I understood her concerns but I was being optimistic without forgetting it could go either way. She seems to have accepted that. I told DH I needed to try and get back into some kind of routine as I was starting to feel braindead! LOL Thankfully he is OK with that. Hope your side effects get better xx

Flutterby – not heard from you since your review – really hope you are OK (or as can be) hun xx

Hi to everyone else.

Hugs, love, hope and prayers.

Have a fab weekend!

xxx

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Good luck during your IVF journey. Sending you lots of PMA and truckloads of (sticky) baby dust your way xoxox

Noah - our little miracle born on 24.01.13 xx
johopes
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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2012 8:26 pm

Hi Everyone,

CKJ-Glad things have blown over with BF, I think people all deal with things differently and I know at times I see my BF looking guilty, and I really hate it, she too got pregnant twice by accident. I liken it to something like survivor guilt but I think your right and these things will sort themselves out....Was a bit worried about no frosties but was told only 30% of people do, so felt more reassured. Glad your taking it easy.

MrsHanes-Hope your ok and the OHSS settles? I've got a sore stomach too and still bloated from meds and feel I look awful, I think a break is a great idea.

Kon Kon-Hope your ok? Have you got anything planned for the weekend?

Completely-I did feel sick at points through stimming did settle down, but think the bloating didn't help, DH also kindly remarked I was a pain in the arse too! Felt better when stopped taking them, make sure you drink loads...

AFM-DH said interview went well, won't hear til Monday though, I can tell you this week has been so stressful at times but proud of how we've supported each other too. Trying to organise things to distract myself for the next week at least before I go back to work, am planning a little light gardening tomorrow and visit to a garden centre. Small things seem to help too, have put some yellow flowers in my bedroom and trying to fill my head with nice things.

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend

Jo xxxx
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