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Tracy of course u can hun.  I'm so excited for you . Can't wait to have cuddles with little miss newbie lol xx |
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Posted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 8:39 pm |
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How exciting more babies, making me feel much more positive.
Wendy thats a good sign that you feel pregnant.
Oh and we are moving back to Doncaster in May to try to sell out house, that way we can get settled over in West Yorkshire in our own home rather than renting, Hopefully will get to see a bit more of you ladies then xx |
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:07 pm |
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| Got a BFP this morning, then again at lunchtime digital said 2-3!! Can't quite believe it xx |
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:19 pm |
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whooo hoooo! sooty thats fantastic news congratulations!!
wendy, hope things are turning out for the better, i know you have had some bleeding.
i went to hospital yesterday as midwife thought baby had increased in size such a lot in 2 weeks so wanted it double checking. scan shows baby to be round about 9lb ish at the moment, so just hoping she comes soon.
juliette. thanks for your calming advice over last few days, and weeks and months!! lol. you have been a star!
lou hope you and bubba are doing well?
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:23 pm |
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| Wendy didn't realise you'd had some bleeding. Really hope all is ok xx |
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:31 pm |
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Yey congrats on bfp sooty . Fab news xxx
Wendy ((hugs))
Tracy lol anytime you know that . See u tues unless little miss appears before ! Xx
Hope everyone else is ok
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:39 pm |
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Ah Sooty that's great news for you.
Tracy, wow that baby will be a whopper!
Thanks Julie
Yes, got a BFP, but had spotting from Weds and today had full blown AF. Still got a line on test, but my digital only said 1-2 today and I should be 2-3, so not holding out much hope. Looks like it will be the same as my first cycle where I lost the baby before 6 weeks. Got a scan booked at Care for 12th when I should be 6 weeks just to confirm if lining gone etc.
Pretty crap really!
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 9:29 pm |
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| Wendy so sorry to hear you are bleeding, when was OTD? Could CB digital be wrong? xx |
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 10:17 pm |
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Hi Sooty, OTD was yesterday, but I did 2 clear blues! lol. I was 18 days post EC (so 18 days post conception), so it should have been 2-3 weeks. Still bleeding quite a lot, lots of period pains, so I really believe that this is the same as my first cycle unfortunately. I daren't let myself believe it would be anything other than that.
How exciting for you though! Looks like you may have conceived on Olivia's birthday! lol
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 7:41 am |
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I really hope not Wendy I can clearly remember your 1st cycle, did you call care emergency number?
Oh yeah hadn't realised but was about the time or not long after, trying not to get carried away xx |
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 8:52 pm |
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I spoke to Care on Friday which was my OTD (I'd called them on Wednesday when I started bleeding and just got told off for testing early!). Basically I told them about my first cycle, so the nurse didn't sound too hopeful, just said to test every few days and let them know if it goes negative, but have a scan booked in for Monday 12th when I should be 6 weeks, which is just for me to confirm that it's gone really.
Good luck! Will you pay for a private early scan or wait until 12 weeks?
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 9:07 pm |
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That won't be easy testing every other day!
I'm going to try and talk my GP into getting me an early viability scan but if not yes will pay for a scan xx |
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Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2012 7:54 am |
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hi ladies
wendy, so sorry your feeling so negative, are you still bleeding? i will stay pray there is a little heart beating on your scan.
sooty how are you feeling? i didnt dare test till my af was a week late as i was convinced id never be pregnant. look at me now! lol we know how precious it is to even get a sniff of a bfp we never stop worrying!
well im still hanging on to my little lady, due a week tomorrow. i have ordered a new mobile to be delivered tomorrow so i need to be in to sign for it, so i hoping sods law might make it happen today/tomorrow! lol.
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Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 6:49 am |
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TCR keep us posted!!
Wendy will be thinking of you testing again.
\louhow you feeling?
I'm feeling ok but have had cramping & lots of wind  , went to see GP & she has agreed to refer me to EPAU in a couple of weeks for piece of mind. Reall hoped I would be more relaxed this time. xx |
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 2:44 pm |
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Many thanks for your Advice Tcr not long now till your second little lady is here how exciting
Wendy thinking of you got everything crossed
Congratulations sooty on your bfp fanatic news
Hello to everyone else hope all is well |
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 3:43 pm |
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Hi Keeley
nice to hear from you. I've to also decide asap whether to keep the embyros frozen. What a decision to make. My problem is the risks in having a fourth section 
Time has flown, can't believe its been 3 years since having ivf
take care and if you decide to try again - good luck
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 7:48 pm |
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Hi ladies, think I must have missed a notification, I didn't realise there were posts.
Sooty, lol at the wind, I was always like that. Glad you have a sympathetic GP who will refer you to EPAU.
Tracy, hope baby tcr comes soon. I'm sure she'll be fine.
Keeley hope you're ok. Are you thinking of trying for another (sorry if I've missed something can't go back a page!).
Zoe, hmmm, I never had any frosties, so wouldn't know about the letter. Number 4 sounds like a big commitment!
As for me, well it's all over, I was bleeding for over a week and did a digital test this morning and it said not pregnant, so I cancelled the scan that was scheduled for Monday. My aunty died on Tuesday as well after a long battle with cancer, so that's another blow. Plus the extension was started on Monday, so house is full of dust, despite there not being any actual work in the house yet! lol.
Anyway, not feeling great, but you have to get on with it. I'm feeling extremely negative about my final cycle. I've booked a telephone review with Dr Shaker on 13th April (Friday, but I'm not superstitious about that!), so may start May time, depending on AFs. Kind of want to just get it out of the way if you know what I mean, then move on with my boy if I'm only destined to have him.
Love to all and good luck to Tracy and Sooty!
Wendy xx |
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 8:04 pm |
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Wendy. ((hugs))
So sorry to hear that its all over. It's heartbreaking when you get bfp only to start bleeding sion after. It happened to me in august after Nat bfp.
Hope you are ok esp with the loss of your aunt as well. Xxx
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 8:37 pm |
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hi everyone
its been busy on here tonight!
wendy so sorry you are having a really rubbish time of it. things seem to all happen at once. thinking of you.
sooty, good you have managed to get a scan booked, shame it cant be sooner but least your getting one.
hello julie (i am a shopaholic!) lol
im still waiting, due date is tues 13th, i see midwife on monday so maybe she will offer a sweep if nothing has happened by then. i know i should moan because im so blessed but blummin eck i have really had enough now, bring on the labour pains please!
hope everyone is ok, nice to see us all back again. hello to zo-zo |
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 9:20 pm |
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| Wendy my thoughts are with you hun especially with losing your aunt aswell xx |
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 7:41 pm |
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Sooty what wonderful news here's hoping you have an uneventful 8 months xx
Tcr hope you don't have to wait too much longer xx
Wendy so sorry again hope you are doing ok
Hi to everyone else.
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 9:46 pm |
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TCR no news yet?
Chucy have you get a date for fet?
Did another CB Digital yesterday and said 3+  xxx |
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 1:43 pm |
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Hi ladies
Sooty - Congratulations xx
Wendy - We have Facebooked, but wanted to send a hug xx
I wanted to update you all on our pregnancy news, we had a high Downs result at the NT scan 1 in 85 chance. We wasnt going to have the test but was pestered into it by the consultants Registra.
We went to see another Consultant to discuss the results and he agreed we shouldnt have needed the NT as the PGD would have been more conclusive than the NT tests, he was disgusted in the way we were treat by the Registra and offered us to go to London for a scan to try to reassure us that baby was ok.
We went for the scan this Thursday and all looked ok with the baby chromosonally, no indicators to say baby could have Downs. The girls who scanned us were laughing and joking and sure all was ok. The Consultant came in and said she would check too. She detected something wrong with babies heart and stomach, they were in the wrong place. They think baby has a diaphragmatic hernia, where the stomach and intestines are pushed up behind the heart and it means the babies lungs cant grow. The survival rate at birth is just 40/50% and could be as little as 10%, but in this case they can operate on me at 26 weeks and place a balloon in babies throat to help the lungs to grow. Either way our precious baby will need to be put on ventilation straight after birth and they will operate if stable enough. We are back in London in two weeks for them to confirm the condition. There is a fairly high chance baby could also have a syndrome that babies with CDH also carry.
We are devastated and Im not sure how Im meant to function. After all we have been through how can this be? It is just one of those freak things that can happen to anyone. Im not sure how Im meant to face people asking about the pregnancy knowing our baby might not live more than 24/48 hours after birth. All we can do is hope. Sorry to post but I need to talk to people about this or I fear I will go mad xx |
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Omg Lou, I'm so sorry to hear this . I can't imagine the pain and heartache your going through at the moment. Just try and hang on in there until you go back to London. Maybe they will have more promising news then. Oh hun ((hugs))
Anytime you need to chat you know where I and I'm guessing everybody on here, is. If you need to meet up and chat let me know . Anytime is ok for me. I can drop Rhiannon off so we can chat freely for however long you need to. I just can't belive it . After everything you've been through to get your little one .
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:46 pm |
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oh lou, im devastated for you honey. i had to read it twice to get my head around it.
maybe in hindsight it is better that you had the nt scan to be able to prepare for what is to come? but then it would be spotted at 20 week scan anyway? i really dont know what to say? its just unbelievable after all you have been through.
like juliette says, try and hold out till you go to London again to get more detail. as for people asking about your pregnancy - its so difficult! do you start saying things arent looking too great or try and put a brave face on, i really dont know. maybe it depends on what you would do if the outcome was worse than was thought? i wish i could help you more but im just stunned as what to say. are you off work hun?
also if you do want to chat off here, just facebook me and we can chat.
sending you massive hugs, i cant imagine how you are getting through each day at the moment x x |
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